In Parshat Vayeitzei we embark on the profound journey of Yaakov Avinu, a path that not only that not only traverses physical landscapes but provides depth into human psyche. At the heart of the Parsha lies the theme of vision and purpose, two psychological concepts that guide Yaakov’s path and offer timeless lessons for ours.
Helen Keller once wrote, “The only thing worse than being blind is having sight but no vision.” Everyone needs a vision. We all need a purpose to give us direction and inspiration in life. Life can't just be about surviving. It has to be about the goals and the aspirations and the big picture that we are striving for. There are too many challenges and opportunities in the path of life not to have clarity of vision.
As Yaakov Avinu flees his brother on his journey to Haran, he is given a gift from Hashem that sustained him throughout his life – the gift of purpose. Yaakov Avinu lays down to rest and has the prophetic vision of a ladder ('Jacob's Ladder') reaching into the heavens with angels ascending and descending. Hashem appears to him and promises to look over him on his journey ahead and return him back to Israel, back to his heritage. Rashidescribes that the key message for Yaakov was that we don’t venture out into the world alone. Angels accompany us and Hashem is looking after us each step of the way.
In the realm of psychology, having a vision serves as a compass for our actions and decisions. It provides a roadmap, guiding us through the uncertainties of life. However, vision alone is not enough; purpose must accompany it. In the field of positive psychology, purpose is considered a fundamental component of human flourishing. Having a sense of purpose gives our lives meaning and direction, contributing to overall well-being.
Friedrich Nietzsche wrote, “He who has a why to live for can bear almost any how.” Yaakov Avinu experienced tremendous pain and hardship through the course of his life, and yet through this vision and purpose provided from Hashem is sustained him and gave him the strength to withstand all the difficulties and challenges that laid ahead.
As we all continue to grapple with life after the brutality of October 7th in Israel, this is one of the great miracles of human history. No other nation in history has endured as much hardship through exile, dispersion and persecution as the Jewish people. Yet, what has sustained us throughout is this vision of 'Jacob's Ladder' – Hashem’s pledge that He would be with us, always. As we reflect on Parshat Vayeitzei, let us consider the vision and purpose that propel us forward in our daily endeavors. May we ascend the ladder of our aspirations, anchored by a strong sense of purpose, and find fulfillment in walking our path guided by Hashem.
Elan Javanfard, M.A., L.M.F.T. is a Consulting Psychotherapist focused on behavioral health redesign, a Professor of Psychology at Pepperdine University, & a lecturer related to Mindfulness, Evidence Based Practices, and Suicide Prevention. Elan is the author of Psycho-Spiritual Insights: Exploring Parasha & Psychology, weekly blog. He lives in Los Angeles Pico Robertson community with his wife and three children and can be reached at Elan.Javanfard@gmail.com.